We may not like those teachers who dismiss our inability to understand something, but love those who help us understand concepts in an easier way. We also offer and receive help only from neighbors we are comfortable talking to. Ask yourself why you feel comfortable when talking to someone. Feeling understood is not only a basic human need but it is also how we connect, help, and support one another. But too often, we are quick to judge someone or impatient to listen completely to get to know the whole situation. Even worse we might laugh at someone when they share their sorrow. Have you ever wondered why?
It is important to understand why we hesitate when it comes to listening to and empathising with someone closely. If we feel what they are feeling, would we still respond in the same manner? If we can’t recognize someone in pain, how can we support them? How can we make a difference?
Wouldn’t we prevent suicides if we could only listen to someone who wanted to share what they were feeling? This is why empathy is crucial.